Can I ask a personal question to the marrieds on this site?

I beleive in being prudent but this question is on my mind My husband and I abstained until we were married and the first time we had se* was on our honeymoon. We do love eacother and we are happy married 13 years but the few times I have seen se* scenes in the movies the couple (usually not married) were very coordinated and very smooth and very experienced we had not prior experince we are blessed but we are not swining off the chandliers like when we first married I am in my 30s and my husband in his early 40s. We are not dissatified with eacother but is this normal? In marraige what is a healthy normal se* life consist of?